dear gejolak, how could you drive me to keep repeating that name in every pray? how could you drive me to keep whispering any wishes for that person? how could you drive me to keep patient for all unseen sign? how could you drive me to fall deeper?
whether happy or sad is our choice. that’s why, choose to be happy everyday, right after we wake up from our dream land.
have a good day, happy people <3
what’s the most important thing in a relationship? my answer will be commitment.
it’s ironic to see how people treat a relationship. they’re in a relationship because he/she is nice, he’s handsome/she’s beautiful, he/she is complete his/her life (at that time), and any other cliche reasons. but once they found something unsuitable with their partner, they could easily slipped to fall in love with other person. they’re starting to compare their partner with that new person. trust me, what will they figure out is, that new person is much better than their partner. but have they ever realized that is happen just because all they can see from their partner is their flaws, otherwise that new person has everything they wanted in a relationship. then they would say ‘if heart already choose, then what could i do? heart will never lie’. really, i’d like to punch everyone who use this sentence to acknowledge their act to cheat on their partner. i can assure this kind of people don’t understand the essence of relationship and not ready to be in a relationship. let’s move forward to something more serious, marriage. everyone assuming or at least hoping someone their married to is their last one. but then some of the cases ended up with the same case like i explained before.
what the hell is wrong?
their commitment to relationship
in life we’ll get used to something or someone which live with us, so does relationship. it won’t as spark as the first time, it won’t as fun as the first time, less excitement, and no more beat fast heart. this is where commitment take place.
no one could get into our heart or even substitute our flaws partner without our permission.
cause if we let this happen over and over again, then we’ll never find our last person. i could accept and understand if a relationship ended up cause something that really reasonable, but cheating with someone else (who they think better than their partner). i will never. that’s so unacceptable, cause none of good reason behind cheating on our own partner.
none of us has a right to hurt someone else’s heart. so, if we decided to be in a relationship with someone, remember this one : commitment is everything.
lover(s) and sinner(s) <3
sometimes all you have in life is trouble. no matter which direction you go for, you meet trouble. until you can’t even hide or run, but face it. all of it. until you can’t even feel pain or happy, but numb. until you can’t even tell anyone or keep it by yourself, but write. sometimes.
i’ve ever told my self that i don’t really like to go to mountain or even beach because it’s mainstream
but the fact is, there will always an exceptional in life, and i’m still a human which sometimes need to be mainstream
this is my morning view on the late december from Bromo. beautiful, isn’t it?
that was a huge day for me. happy birthday again, An. make your all of your wish(es) come true :)
Whole world is watching us now
It’s a little intimidating
Since there’s no way to come down
Lets give them something amazing
cause everyone has a secret, and sometimes we can’t handle it by our self :)
a beautiful morning in Bandung